Do you tip your “waiter” on take-out orders?
Part two in my Awkward Tip Etiquette series
I stiffed my take-out waiter for the first time this weekend and got an ugly look for it.
Normally I tip receptionists a buck for boxing my meal and carrying it all the way from the kitchen to the reception desk. (Excruciating work, I know.) But this time I grew a pair and followed my wife’s example: Don’t tip a restaurant worker for putting carry-out in a bag for you.
Again, I’m fine tipping someone that actually “waits on you” in a dining room. Servers don’t get paid a minimum wage. They’re normally hard workers and/or are struggling to make ends meet. So I’m happy to throw a few Washingtons their way for good service.
But I’m done tipping for carry-out, since the person handing me my food doesn’t add any value to my patronage, nor do they serve. I don’t care if it’s the bartender, the host, or some other receptionist. And I’m not going to let awkward attempts to “serve me” a bag or ugly looks deter me. Unless, of course, you can convince me otherwise.
Do you tip for carry-out food? If so, why?
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I’ve always wondered about this, but my wondering has never induced me to actually tip for take-out. Maybe I should? I dunno . . .
I emailed my dad about it (he owned and ran a restaurant for 30 years.) His only response was “No!!”
My guess is that people started to feel pressured to tip on carry out when everything moved to credit cards. Restaurant receipts usually print a spot for tip by default, whether one is warranted or not.
No, No, No. Why would I? I agree with Lindz on this one.
Furthermore, I think big-box companies and grocery chains should give me an incentive for the self check-out line. What a scam! At least give me 2% off my total. Perhaps I should be more grateful that they allowed me to help them keep their labor costs down.
No that’s definitely wrong. I work at a restaurant and my job is takeout orders solely and I make $2.13 an hour. I make my pay check off of tips. It is absolutely necessary to tip takeout just as much as it is to tip a server. That’s how I make my money and when people do not tip it frustrates me because I put a lot of work into ensuring their order is right and on time and everything.
Hi Amber. Thanks for the insight. It seems however, some hostesses do get paid hourly, as opposed with tips. At least that was the case at a restaurant I worked at. Either way, that’s good to know.
I throw some change and maybe an extra buck if I have it into the tip cup at my favorite burrito shop, Boca Grande. The food is so friggin’ good and the staff are very nice, so I don’t mind. It’s places like Dunkin Donuts that don’t deserve my tips.
I also like how McDonald’s side-steps the issue by putting Ronald McDonald House donation boxes at each register and drive-thru.