Here’s why we’re more comfortable online than offline now
Since it’s related to my book, I was fascinated by this excerpt from USA Today:
“Our brains are sensitive to stimuli moment to moment, and if you spend a lot of time with a particular mental experience or stimulus, the neural circuits that control that mental experience will strengthen,” he says. “At the same time, if we neglect certain experiences, the circuits that control those will weaken. If we’re not having conversations or looking people in the eye — human contact skills — they will weaken.”
In essence, we’re willingly training ourselves to favor online virtual stimuli more than offline real stimuli, which is madness.
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My iPod has been shuffling in “We Used To Wait” by Arcade Fire a lot lately. It strikes home more and more each time. This includes correspondence:
I used to write,
I used to write letters I used to sign my name
I used to sleep at night
Before the flashing lights settled deep in my brain
Oddly enough, my most-played video game of 2012 has been Tiny Tower, a game that is entirely centered around waiting.
I’m trying to stop distracting myself; checking Wikipedia about actors and directors while I’m watching a movie has actually ruined some movies for me. I often issue personal challenges to stay disconnected – “I won’t look at my iPhone until I get in to work..” or “I’m not touching my iPhone unless it rings tonight.”
Can’t wait for the book, Blake.
I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately . . . Here’s an article that may lead you to some interesting material for your book as well: http://www.bakadesuyo.com/does-too-much-computer-time-degrade-social-sk.