High-fiving strangers makes my day
No matter how frequent you train, running is a constant challenge. Last week, during one particularly sluggish run, I found inspiration to keep pushing myself from an unlikely comrade: an unfamiliar long-boarder approaching me from the opposite direction.
He couldn’t have been older than 15. As he drew nearer, he smiled, and I smiled back. Then, without thinking, I outstretched my right arm to signal a high-five. He did the same.
“Thwack!”
It was one of those good ones—you know, the kind that makes a loud “pop” sound without hurting. He smiled again, only bigger this time. I did the same. Then I picked up my pace to finish strong.
There’s something special that takes place when strangers cheer you on. While the support of family and friends can anchor your success, the unexpected applause by strangers can be a rush of adrenaline—like how a swelling crowd inspires unyielding athletes or a triumphant symphony.
I know that high-five made my day. And I’m sure it did the same for my new skateboarding friend, given the toothy grin he left with. Rock on, humanity!
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Whenever I see a kid skating I always talk to them and ask if I can skate. It always ends with smiles on my face and the skaters. Good times!
It’s funny. I think certain activities are prone to the “we’re strangers but friends” attitude. I noticed this when my friends and I would cruise around in my buddy’s VW Bus in high school. Every other VW Bus driver would wave, honk, etc… The same would often happen when I had my old scooter. Maybe long boarding is the same.
I know exactly what you mean. Whenever I do a 5k or 10k race, my favorite part is the people who line the race and cheer on each and every runner, no matter how far back they are.
Oh, and if you want to get a serious high five buzz, watch this Improv Everywhere clip.