Asking the below is sure to elicit a much better response than inquiring about the weather.

1. “What are you excited about?”
2. “What’s the best dining experience you’ve ever had?”
3. “What’s been the best part of your week?”
4. “What hobby have you always wanted to pick up?”
5. “What’s the nicest thing anyone’s ever said about you?”
6. “Do you have any good book, music, or movie recommendations?”
7. “Would you rather be a time traveler or a mind reader?”
8. “What’s the most interesting thing you’ve learned recently?”
9. “How did you learn to be so good with your (talent)?”
10. “If you could do anything without worrying about money, what would you do and why?”
11. “What’s your perfect Saturday?”
12. “How would your best friend introduce you?”