Making gutsy moves in life
Chutzpah. That’s Yiddish for “gutsy,” and I really like seeing human beings demonstrate it. My former partner and still good friend, Robert Bradford, is demonstrating lots of chutzpah this very week. After Robert decided to move on in his career late last year, he took a good paying job with a large home builder as a database administrator. I could sense early on that he just was digging it. The passion wasn’t there and from some of his comments, he just sounded like a fish out of water.
About a month ago, I got a call from Robert. He said, “I think I’m moving to up state New York.” “What’s in up state New York,” I asked, to which he replied, “I don’t know, but I’m going to find out” (kind of the same reaction when Ray told his wife in Field of Dreams he needed to go to Boston). Movie scenarios aside, Robert had a very strong impression that’s where he needed to be. So he picked up, bought a car due to his old one being run down, and made the several thousand mile trip from Arizona to New York not fully knowing where he’d live and what he’d be doing for an income.
I also had a friend whose brother went to school to become an accountant, only to hate life several years later working for one of the big four accountancies making a grundle of money. He quit his job and went back to school to become a teacher where he more than likely makes a third of what he did but enjoys what he does, and most of all, is passionate about it.
Be it moving cross-country or ditching a planned career path, what are some examples of gutsy moves in your life or the lives of people you know?
8 Comments
Blake:
Thanks for this post. Its something I am going through right now – very timely for me.
Thanks,
Chris
My Dad took all us kids to Florida with no job and no money. He felt it was the right thing to do. Somehow that decision has led me here to Georgia. I can’t imagine moving across the country with no money.
I know this group of guys who were working on some really awesome technology together and then all got laid off. They decided they were all going to stick together and rough it to start a new company on their own. Now (3 weeks later) they are still all (every single one of them) going to work everyday at that new company knowing that they may not be able to get paid but believing so much in the company that they are giving everything they have to it. Those guys are my heroes – it takes a lot of guts to bet everything on a belief.
I think far too many dreamers don’t even ATTEMPT to make their dreams a reality. Thanks for sharing.
Want to hear how screwed up this is Blake?
I just dropped my Netscape job and moved back to utah based on the spirit. No job, no nothing.
Pretty jacked up, eh?
Does getting down on the dance floor count?
First, I think getting down on the dance floor definitely counts.
Second, I think changing jobs and moving to Atlanta was gutsy for me. It seems like a natural move now, but I had to step out of my comfort zone completely. I think that’s always gutsy. Which is why I think my first comment is so true. As is talking to a stranger or trying a new sport. But yeah, moving across the country is even gutsier, and I really respect that!
a good friend of mine had a full-ride scholarship to a nice university. He said no so he could go to Nashville to pursue his dream of being a country music star.
Naturally, people thought this was nuts, but wouldn’t it have been even more nuts for him to live his entire life wondering? Since he went, he isn’t famous, but he met George Strait (got advice from him) and has had a ton of doors open up.